947|5014 - We gave first borns' a platform to clear the air and tell us their grievances!
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The hosts and callers explore the perceived burdens of being a firstborn, often referred to as 'deputy parents' who manage siblings and household duties. While some discuss the pressure of maintaining high standards, others debate whether this 'firstborn energy' is an exaggerated phenomenon.
The conversation also touches on birth order dynamics through stories of managing younger siblings' bedtimes and the psychological impact of parental expectations. One caller shares how the pressure to be a perfect child influenced her transition from studying law to pursuing a career in marketing.
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I don't know why firstborns think that their problems are the biggest in the world.
00:00:12 · The host expresses skepticism regarding the self-importance often attributed to firstborn children.
Firstborns also complain that they never stop raising some of you. So because he's your older brother or your your older sister, even when you're 35, the oldest sibling still has to come in and rescue you and clean up your mess.
00:03:14 · The host describes the perceived lifelong responsibility firstborns feel toward their younger siblings.
I become a KPC parent. My parents are much softer to my siblings now. They don't do dishes. They don't clean. So, I have to push them to do all of those things.
00:06:46 · A caller named Sepang shares how being the firstborn forces her into a parental role within her household.
But then also you have this unrealistic expectation of being the perfect child. Like you have to do everything right because your parents can't mess up.
00:13:46 · The caller describes the psychological burden and high standards placed on firstborn children.
I was actually a law student and I didn't want to do it because I hated it. I hate history. I hate about it. But because that was the vision my parents had.
00:14:39 · The caller explains how parental expectations influenced her initial academic path.
The hosts and callers explore the perceived burdens of being a firstborn, often referred to as 'deputy parents' who manage siblings and household duties. While some discuss the pressure of maintaining high standards, others debate whether this 'firstborn energy' is an exaggerated phenomenon.
The conversation also touches on birth order dynamics through stories of managing younger siblings' bedtimes and the psychological impact of parental expectations. One caller shares how the pressure to be a perfect child influenced her transition from studying law to pursuing a career in marketing.
Published05 Nov 2026
Duration16:23
Episodes
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We gave first borns' a platform to clear the air and tell us their grievances!
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The hosts and callers explore the perceived burdens of being a firstborn, often referred to as 'deputy parents' who manage siblings and household duties. While some discuss the pressure of maintaining high standards, others debate whether this 'firstborn energy' is an exaggerated phenomenon.
The conversation also touches on birth order dynamics through stories of managing younger siblings' bedtimes and the psychological impact of parental expectations. One caller shares how the pressure to be a perfect child influenced her transition from studying law to pursuing a career in marketing.
05 Nov 2026
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How honest is Anele? The Coronation test!
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In this episode of Anele and the Club on 947, host Anele undergoes a professional lie detector test conducted by Francois. Sponsored by Coronation, the segment concludes a week-long series of polygraph tests involving various personalities including Frankie, Tim Begile, and Cindy. The session features seven personal questions submitted by listeners via WhatsApp, covering topics such as workplace honesty, social media habits, and personal relationships.
The episode concludes with the reveal of the polygraph results, showing no deception detected for any of Anele's answers. The hosts also discuss the mechanics of how memory triggers can affect lie detector accuracy and provide a recap of the week's events, directing listeners to Prime Media Plus for missed segments.
05 Nov 2026
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How honest is Cindy? The Coronation test!
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As part of a week-long series sponsored by Coronation, the 947 breakfast team puts their honesty to the test using a professional lie detector examiner. Following previous tests with Frankie and Tim Begile, Cindy takes the hot seat to answer listener questions regarding her personal habits, workplace ethics, and social media behavior. The episode explores themes of trust, anxiety under pressure, and the distinction between being a gossip and being a liar.
04 Nov 2026
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The Money Minute with Zinathi Gquma: What South Africa’s AGOA exclusion means for small businesses in the export value chain
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In this episode of The Money Minute, financial expert Zinati Koma discusses the economic implications of South Africa's removal from the African Growth and Opportunity Act (AGOA). The discussion covers how the loss of tariff-free access to the US market affects key sectors like automotive and agriculture, specifically citrus and wine. Koma explores the potential for increased costs and reduced competitiveness, while also highlighting opportunities for South African businesses to diversify exports toward China and other African nations.
04 Nov 2026
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What is your policy around loaning money to family? Cardi B says she used to spend $3 million a month on 'family tax'
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This episode of 947 explores the complex dynamics of financial boundaries within families, using rapper Cardi B's reported $3 million monthly family expenses as a starting point. The hosts and callers discuss personal policies regarding lending money to relatives, weighing the importance of communication against the risks of being taken advantage of. The conversation touches on themes of reputation, the impact of sudden wealth, and the necessity of setting limits to prevent financial abuse.
04 Nov 2026
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Back to R10 a Litre? Discovery’s New Fuel Rewards Explained with CEO of Discovery Insure Robert Attwell
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In this episode of 947's The Club, Robert Adwell from Discovery Insure discusses a new fuel reward initiative designed to alleviate the financial pressure of rising petrol prices. Drawing parallels to the economic landscape of 2008, the discussion highlights how Discovery Bank and Discovery Insure clients can receive up to 65% cashback in Discovery Miles on fuel purchases at BP, Shell, and even via Gautrain transactions.
The conversation explores consumer behavior data showing a trend toward smaller, more frequent fuel purchases near the end of the month. Adwell explains the mechanics of the instant cashback system and how these rewards can be used for further fuel purchases or other services like Tiger Wheel and Tyre. The segment concludes with an overview of how easy it is to join both Discovery Bank and Discovery Insure digitally to access these benefits.
03 Nov 2026
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Your tenants say they can't afford a rent but buy an expensive new car. Would you still keep their rent the same?
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In this episode of Anele and the Club on 947, the hosts and callers debate a moral dilemma involving a Greek landlord named Nikos. After years of refusing to raise rent for a young couple citing economic hardship in Greece, Nikos discovers the tenants have purchased a luxury car. The discussion explores the ethics of financial leniency, the sanctity of rental contracts, and whether a person's sudden display of wealth invalidates their previous claims of poverty.
The conversation features various perspectives from callers, ranging from those who believe the contract is absolute to those who argue that the tenants were exploiting the landlord's kindness. The debate touches on themes of honesty, social responsibility, and the boundaries of personal spending when one has benefited from financial assistance.
03 Nov 2026
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How honest is Thembekile? The Coronation test!
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In this episode of 947, host Tim Bekele undergoes a high-stakes lie detector test to answer listener questions and prove his honesty. Sponsored by Coronation, the segment features professional lie detector examiner Francois as the team investigates personal claims ranging from social media habits to workplace behavior. The tension builds as the presenters reveal whether Tim's answers regarding a famous lost scarf and other personal anecdotes are truthful or deceptive.
03 Nov 2026
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What do you do when you notice an error in group chat you were mistakenly added to??
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A junior accountant, referred to as Veronica, accidentally finds herself part of a leadership WhatsApp group for four months. While monitoring the group, she discovers a 1.2 million rand error in next year's budget and alerts the group, leading to a heated debate among the hosts regarding professional boundaries, corporate ethics, and the risks of whistleblowing. The episode explores whether her actions were heroic or a breach of privacy.
The discussion expands into personal accounts of workplace retaliation, including a caller who describes being placed on a performance plan and eventually dismissed after flagging ten ghost employees in a payroll system. The program concludes with reflections on the dangers of sharing sensitive corporate data via messaging platforms.
03 Nov 2026
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Anele’s Northern Lights trip came with some drama: The cruise, the ex and the unhappy boyfriend
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Anele shares her incredible experience cruising through the Norwegian seas to chase the Northern Lights, describing it as a magical and must-do bucket list adventure. She discusses the vibrant Norwegian culture and highlights various excursions such as hiking to crystal clear lakes and dog sledding with huskies.
The episode also serves as a promotional segment for Flight Centre, offering listeners a way to book similar trips using a specific promo code for a discount. Anele provides practical travel tips, including clothing preparation and flight routes via Amsterdam to Bergen.
03 Nov 2026
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Anele & The club has new jingles: What do you think of them?
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The hosts of Anele and the Club on 947 present a series of five new radio jingles produced by voice artist Coco Madala. The episode follows the presenters and their listeners as they critique each new audio clip, evaluating whether the musical styles—ranging from jazz to musical theatre—are suitable for the high-energy, pop-centric format of the morning show.
Through listener feedback and studio debate, the team discusses the importance of brand alignment and energy levels. While some jingles receive praise for their vocal quality, the consensus leans towards maintaining their current sonic identity rather than adopting the new, more mellow or theatrical options.
02 Nov 2026
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How honest is Frankie? The Coronation test!
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In this episode of Anele and the Club, the team explores the concept of trust through a high-stakes lie detector test. Featuring a professional polygraph examiner named Francois, the segment puts staff member Frankie in the hot seat to answer personal and humorous questions ranging from office fridge etiquette to past career regrets. The episode serves as a promotional tie-in for Coronation, emphasizing the importance of earned trust.
02 Nov 2026
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The Money Minute: Zinathi Gquma Returns and chats the impact of rising fuel prices on small businesses
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In this episode of The Money Minute on 947, Zinati discusses the economic pressures facing consumers and small businesses due to rising fuel prices. The segment explores how increased petrol and diesel costs, driven by geopolitical tensions, are creating a ripple effect across various industries, including tourism, farming, and logistics. The discussion highlights the challenges of maintaining competitive pricing and managing operational costs in an inflationary environment.
02 Nov 2026
5001-
Tbo Touch dropped his single "Flow" today and he is in studio to tell us all about it
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Radio personality Taj welcomes Tibo Touch to the 947 studio to discuss his career evolution from hip-hop to Afro Tech. The conversation explores the importance of consistency in maintaining relevance and the challenges of staying authentic within a changing media landscape.
The episode also covers updates regarding the Replenishment concert, including its move to a new venue in Rivonia. The discussion highlights improvements to event logistics, the inclusion of comedy in the lineup, and the concert's unique family-friendly features.
16 Oct 2026
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Msizi from 947 Drive with Thando claims he is sick, but his sick voice is not convincing enough so we asked Joburg to show him how it's done
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The hosts of the 947 morning show engage in a lighthearted debate regarding the authenticity of various 'sick voices' used to avoid work. The episode features a series of listener call-ins, where participants attempt to perform convincing, dramatic, or overly exaggerated symptoms—ranging from congestion and sore throats to full-blown emotional breakdowns—to win the approval of the hosts.
Listeners share their personal strategies for faking illness, such as using specific physical positions to alter their vocal tone. The segment serves as an interactive competition, inviting the audience to judge which callers successfully mimic a person in distress and which are clearly just looking for a day off.
16 Oct 2026
4999-
Thembisa is complaining about a stationary list when there are only 6 weeks left of school, have you ever been asked to buy new school supplies?
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A heated discussion regarding a parent's frustration over a sudden request for new art stationery in October. The episode follows a voice note from Tembi, whose child's school replaced an art teacher just as the year was winding down, leading to a new list of required materials despite parents having already purchased supplies in January.
The panel debates the validity of this 'crash out,' weighing the financial burden on families against the pedagogical needs of a new teacher. Featuring perspectives from a primary school teacher and various callers, the conversation explores themes of school hierarchy, parental confrontation, and the practicalities of classroom management during the final term of the academic year.
16 Oct 2026
4998-
What stokvel are you apart of and how did it go?
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The hosts and guests explore various types of 'stockvel' clubs, ranging from grocery and toiletry pools to property investment groups. The episode features an interview with Mfundo Mabaso regarding collective buying solutions for home ownership and includes listener call-ins sharing their own experiences.
The discussion also covers property-focused stokvels designed to pay down home loans through large monthly contributions. The conversation emphasizes the importance of financial discipline and includes cautionary tales regarding the risks of fraud within these savings groups.
15 Oct 2026
4997-
Where did your parents go and it was THE thing you had to wear / drink / eat...?
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In this episode of Anele and the Club on 947, the hosts and callers explore the phenomenon of travel-induced personality shifts. The discussion centers on how visiting specific destinations—ranging from Germany and Italy to China, India, and Mozambique—can fundamentally alter a person's tastes in food, fashion, and lifestyle habits upon their return home.
Listeners share humorous anecdotes about family members becoming obsessed with Ferrari sweaters after a trip to Germany, becoming pizza critics after visiting Italy, or adopting new culinary preferences after experiencing traditional dishes in Maputo. The segment serves as an interactive call-in session where the audience shares their own experiences of returning from abroad with a completely new identity.
15 Oct 2026
4996-
Would you travel out of South Africa for cheaper healthcare somewhere else?
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The episode explores the growing global phenomenon of medical tourism, where individuals travel to different countries to receive medical treatments and procedures at a lower cost. The hosts discuss how high healthcare costs in nations like the United States drive patients toward more affordable destinations such as South Africa, Turkey, Thailand, and India for services ranging from dental work and eye care to cosmetic surgeries and specialist checkups.
Through listener call-ins and personal anecdotes, the conversation covers the financial implications of medical procedures abroad, the role of travel insurance in covering unexpected health issues, and the logistical benefits of pairing medical appointments with holidays. The discussion also touches on the accessibility of healthcare in South Africa compared to other regions.
14 Oct 2026
4995-
How do you politely tell someone they have a flaw?
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The hosts discuss a voice note from Grant, who is seeking advice on how to tell his sister that losing weight could improve her romantic prospects and confidence. The conversation evolves into a debate about whether loved ones should comment on physical flaws, weighing the importance of body autonomy against the necessity of honest, loving intervention for health.
14 Oct 2026
4994-
What is the story you heard about someone working at the company for long and got nothing..?
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The hosts of Anele and the Club on 947 discuss a viral story regarding a Walmart employee who was given only a small pot plant arrangement after forty-four years of service. The conversation explores themes of corporate culture, employee recognition, and the emotional impact of how long-serving staff members are treated upon retirement.
Listeners share various personal anecdotes involving inadequate farewells, such as a 26-year veteran receiving a bucket of KFC and a family receiving a meager sum after a long-term employee passed away. The episode debates whether modern workplace shifts, particularly post-COVID, have eroded the sentimental gestures that once honored institutional pillars.
14 Oct 2026
4993-
As a landlord how do you evict a tenant that refuses to pay their rent?
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The hosts discuss the challenges faced by South African landlords, beginning with celebrity Connie Ferguson's struggle to evict tenants owing significant unpaid rent. The episode features a caller, Lynette, who details her harrowing experience with a property syndicate using auction fraud and corruption to occupy her home.
The conversation explores the broader difficulties of illegal occupancy and long-drawn-out eviction processes in South Africa. It includes a discussion on controversial methods used to make properties uninhabitable and an interview with litigation attorney Hector Shabalala regarding legal protections for tenants and the risks associated with negligent property management.
13 Oct 2026
4992-
Cindy does not want loud in her home! Which kids are banned from your house?
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This episode features a lively discussion centered on the topic of children who are banned from visiting certain households. The hosts and callers share various anecdotes ranging from behavioral issues like excessive screaming, property damage, and nosiness to more serious incidents involving theft and boundary-crossing. Through listener call-ins, the conversation explores the boundaries parents set regarding age-appropriate play, respect for property, and the impact of parental supervision on guest behavior.
13 Oct 2026
4991-
Matric exams are upon us, how is your household preparing??
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This episode provides a comprehensive guide for matriculants and their parents to navigate the exam season successfully. Educational psychologist Zakira Muhammad discusses mental strategies such as breathing, grounding techniques, and positive self-talk, while offering guidance for parents on maintaining a stable home environment.
Complementing the psychological advice, registered dietitian Mbali Mapoli introduces nutritional strategies focused on brain health through complex carbohydrates, proteins, and hydration. The discussion also covers practical study methods like the Pomodoro technique and active recall, alongside advice on managing exam-day logistics and bouncing back from difficult papers.
12 Oct 2026
4990-
If your partner’s phone had absolutely no WhatsApp history, would you see it as a red flag or am I reaching?
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The hosts of 947's 'The Club' debate the implications of using disappearing messages on WhatsApp, questioning whether the feature is a tool for privacy or a sign of suspicious behavior. The discussion begins with a listener's concern regarding a boyfriend whose WhatsApp contains no message history and has the disappearing messages feature enabled.
The episode features various caller perspectives, ranging from personal anecdotes about infidelity to professional justifications involving corporate security and fraud prevention. The conversation explores themes of digital privacy, trust in relationships, and the psychological impact of discovering hidden information on a partner's device.
12 Oct 2026
4989-
Mondli drove to KZN for spice, what did you drive all over town searching for??
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The hosts and various callers discuss the lengths they are willing to go, specifically in terms of driving distances, to obtain specific items or complete passion projects. Callers share anecdotes ranging from driving across towns for phone cases and mic stands to traveling provinces for food or clothing.
The conversation continues with lighthearted stories about traveling for pets and unique culinary finds, such as a trip to Pietermaritzburg for a specific butcher's spice. The segment concludes with reflections on how the discussion transitioned from general long drives to an obsession with finding specific spices.
09 Oct 2026
4988-
13 year old Lesedi thinks auntie Anele is rage baiting the city for agreeing that a pet sitter should not get paid
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The hosts discuss a dilemma involving Zama, a house-sitter who is being refused payment after a parrot she was looking after flew away while on its afternoon perch. The episode features a debate regarding whether the sitter is responsible for the bird's escape or if the owners are liable for providing instructions that led to the loss.
Various perspectives are shared, ranging from defending the sitter's right to payment to empathizing with the pet owners' emotional connection to their animals.
09 Oct 2026
4987-
Which would you rather live next to: a drummer or a DJ?
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The hosts and callers debate whether it is preferable to live next to a drummer or a DJ, weighing the noise levels and habits of both. Callers share personal anecdotes about living near musicians, drug dens, sangomas, and even creches.
The discussion continues with various challenges of living and working in close proximity to noisy environments, such as nearby creelches and musical practice sessions. Callers share experiences dealing with loud children and instruments like the recorder, while the hosts suggest solutions like noise-canceling headphones or working from a cafe.
08 Oct 2026
4986-
What do you carry with you when you travel...?
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The hosts and callers discuss the various items they carry when traveling to avoid disappointment, ranging from coffee preferences and essential electronics to personal comforts like pillows and spices. The conversation also covers specific habits for accommodating picky eaters and a caller's necessity for Aromat seasoning.
08 Oct 2026
4985-
What is the moratorium on bringing up something that is wrong? How long do you have to ask someone?
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The hosts explore the complexities of lost property in the workplace, beginning with a dilemma involving an H&M jacket missing for two months. The discussion covers the difficulty of proving ownership without receipts and introduces legal perspectives regarding reporting requirements under the Occupational Health and Safety Act.
The episode also delves into personal stories of found items, including an incident involving prescription glasses and the challenge of reclaiming uniquely made clothing. These stories prompt a broader conversation on accountability, the ethics of keeping found belongings, and the legal implications of theft.
07 Oct 2026
4984-
Kabelo Mabalane says everybody needs somebody and he is here to tell us why?
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Radio hosts Anele and Frankie interview South African artist Kabelo Mabalane about his career, his recent musical comeback, and his personal growth. The conversation explores themes of navigating insecurity in youth, the importance of authenticity in music, and how his roles as a father, husband, and pastor influence his current creative output.
Mabalane discusses his musical evolution after an 11-year hiatus, emphasizing the importance of creating authentic music that reflects his current identity. He also shares details regarding his upcoming album release, a tribute song for a friend's 50th birthday, and the inspiration behind the song '60-60'.
07 Oct 2026
4983-
A movie you REFUSE to watch!!! Its ok, I don’t have to be convinced...?
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In this episode of Anele and the Club on 947, the hosts and callers share their personal lists of movies they refuse to watch. The conversation explores various cinematic triggers, ranging from intense emotional devastation caused by films like Toy Story, My Sister's Keeper, and Marley and Me, to the visceral fear inspired by horror classics like Chucky and The Blair Witch Project.
The discussion also touches on genres that listeners avoid due to discomfort, such as sci-fi epics like Dune or the overwhelming length of crime dramas like The Irishman. Through a series of listener interactions, the segment highlights how personal boundaries with media are often shaped by past emotional reactions or specific fears.
07 Oct 2026
4982-
Parking wars in the complex… who does the visitors parking belong to?
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The hosts explore common disputes in shared residential complexes, focusing specifically on the 'parking wars' surrounding visitor parking. Through a heated voice note from an angry tenant and a caller's struggle with homeowners association rules, the episode analyzes whether these conflicts stem from entitlement or informal, unspoken arrangements.
Advocate Emmanuel Masombo, chairperson of the Gauteng Rental Housing Tribunal, joins the discussion to provide legal perspective. He explains how lease agreements and official house rules serve as the primary guiding documents for resolving such residential disputes.
06 Oct 2026
4981-
Does it matter if the employee looks richer than the boss?
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In this episode of Anele and the Club on 947, listeners share personal experiences regarding workplace friction caused by perceived status symbols, specifically clothing and luxury vehicles. The discussion explores how being 'overdressed' or driving a high-end car like a Porsche can trigger insecurity and resentment in managers and colleagues. Through various voice notes, the hosts examine the psychology of professional jealousy, the impact of lifestyle visibility on career progression, and the tension between personal style and corporate expectations.
06 Oct 2026
4980-
What do you think people who are brave for doing?
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Anele and the club host a lively morning segment on 947, inviting listeners to call in and share what they consider to be truly brave acts. The conversation ranges from personal anecdotes about the pain of nose waxing to more extreme examples like high-intensity interval training, mountain biking, and professional enduro racing.
The episode features listener interactions, including a discussion about the physical toll of bungee jumping and a detailed call with Sherry, whose partner participates in high-risk motorbike racing. The hosts explore themes of courage, endurance, and the shared experience of supporting those who live life on the edge.
06 Oct 2026
4979-
Guess Who's Back!?! Cindy Kruger With More Readings and hope!
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In this episode, psychic Cindy Kruger and the host facilitate connections between listeners and their deceased loved ones. The sessions provide messages of comfort regarding career guidance, ancestral blessings, and navigating grief after the loss of husbands and fathers.
The segment also addresses spiritual guidance for overcoming financial struggles, family tensions, and job insecurity. The episode concludes with an announcement for an upcoming networking dinner with Cindy Kruger and a prediction of lucky lottery numbers.
06 Oct 2026
4978-
What are you consuming daily? We listen and we don’t judge...?
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The hosts of 947's On LA and the Club explore the concept of daily consumption habits, ranging from caffeine addictions to childhood food rituals. The discussion begins with a listener's milestone of 40 days without Red Bull, leading into a broader conversation about what people eat or drink religiously every single day.
Listeners call in to share their specific daily staples, including morning croissants, avocado, and even the ritualistic consumption of Magnum ice cream. The episode examines the psychological and financial aspects of these habits, touching on childhood memories and the comfort found in repetitive dietary routines.
06 Oct 2026
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Not every child thrives in a classroom, what made you choose a different kind of schooling for you kid?
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This episode of Anele and the Club on 947 explores the evolving landscape of education, moving beyond traditional classroom settings. The discussion covers various alternative schooling methods, including online schooling, homeschooling, and specialized institutions like Centennial Schools and UCT Online.
Through listener call-ins, the hosts examine the practicalities of non-traditional education, such as class sizes, academic performance, and social interaction. The conversation touches on the benefits and challenges of different models, from high-end private schools with low student-to-teacher ratios to affordable private options in townships, providing a broad overview of how modern technology and changing parental needs are reshaping how children learn.
05 Oct 2026
4976-
The road-trip stop you refuse to skip?
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The hosts prepare for an upcoming road trip to Durban in a new BMW iX3 SUV by crowdsourcing the best pit stops and snack locations from listeners. The discussion covers various routes across South Africa, including the N3, N2, and roads leading toward Cape Town and the Northern Cape. Listeners contribute recommendations ranging from specific biltong shops and homemade pies to clean restrooms and scenic viewpoints.
The episode serves as a culinary and travel guide for long-distance drivers, highlighting essential stops like Bergville, Harrismouth, and the Eastern Cape. Key themes include the importance of snacks, the search for the best local delicacies like cheesecake and mutton pie, and the shared experience of South African road trip culture.
05 Oct 2026
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Would you cancel your birthday trip for your partner’s family wedding?
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The hosts and callers discuss a dilemma where a woman must choose between a long-planned girls' trip to Italy and attending her boyfriend's sister's wedding, which the boyfriend claims is an ultimatum for their relationship. The discussion explores the emotional consequences of making sacrifices for loved ones and the potential for resentment when those same sacrifices are not reciprocated.
02 Oct 2026
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Is 50/50 between 3 people fair when 2 of those people are a married couple?
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The hosts and callers debate whether a single person traveling with a married couple should split holiday expenses 50-50 or three ways. The discussion covers arguments regarding accommodation costs versus shared consumables, as well as the disadvantages singles face when traveling in groups.
The conversation shifts into a heated debate over splitting costs for petrol and accommodation, eventually moving toward a humorous critique of camping preferences and the logistics of group travel.
01 Oct 2026
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Is it rude to stand/sing at a seated concert?
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This episode explores the ongoing debate regarding concert etiquette, specifically focusing on whether attendees should stand during seated concerts. The hosts and callers discuss the tension between fans who want to dance and sing along to upbeat songs and those who purchased seated tickets to ensure an unobstructed view.
Through various anecdotes involving artists like Lionel Richie, Sting, and Andrea Bocelli, the conversation examines the boundaries of social decorum in different venues, ranging from pop concerts to rugby matches and musical theatre. The discussion weighs the importance of following venue rules against the natural impulse to be moved by music.
01 Oct 2026
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If a photographer takes your picture, can they post it?
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This episode of 947 explores the growing tension between photographers and clients regarding the ownership and social media usage of professional photographs. The discussion covers various perspectives, including clients who feel they should control their images after payment and photographers who view their work as an essential artistic portfolio for business promotion.
Featuring legal insights from Sanda Nyongar, a candidate attorney at Adams and Adams, the conversation clarifies the distinction between authorship and ownership under copyright law. The episode provides practical advice on the importance of contracts in managing intellectual property rights for commissioned works.
01 Oct 2026
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We are chatting Love & Lobola and new book with chef Neo Nontso
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The hosts introduce Chef Nero Nonto and her new cookbook, 'Love and Lobola', which weaves her personal love story with culinary recipes. The conversation explores her approach to healthy cooking, the cultural significance of cooking in South Africa, and the nerves associated with cooking for important people like family and partners.
Nayo discusses how 'Love and Lobola' explores her personal journey through food, marriage, and family traditions. She shares anecdotes about cooking for her mother, the inspiration behind her recipes, and the significance of her new book as a collection of stories rather than just a manual.
30 Sep 2026
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Without giving us the graphics or bashing restaurants... tell us about the time you got food poisoning...?
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Podcast contributors share traumatic personal experiences with food poisoning caused by various sources, including chicken, seafood, expired beer, and improperly stored biryani. The discussion explores the intense physical symptoms of these episodes and how certain incidents have led to long, long-term food aversions or allergies.
The episode also recounts specific instances of widespread illness, such as a listener's experience with bubbling, fermented biryani that sickened her guests.
30 Sep 2026
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What is an American / Tv thing to do...?
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In this episode of Anele and the Club on 947, the hosts and callers discuss the creeping influence of American culture and media on South African daily life. The conversation begins with a personal anecdote about eating ice cream directly from the tub, an act criticized by an eleven-year-old as being something that only happens in movies. This leads to a broader exploration of various 'Americanized' behaviors observed in South Africa, ranging from using red plastic party cups and spontaneous social gatherings to linguistic shifts caused by consuming YouTube and American sitcoms.
The discussion highlights the tension between local norms and imported media tropes, such as the use of specific terminology like 'bleachers' instead of 'pavilion' or requesting money in dollars. The hosts reflect on the importance of localized content to prevent the normalization of foreign cultural habits among South African children.
30 Sep 2026
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Masked Singer Season 3: Khanyi Mbau and Judith Sephuma in studio
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Radio hosts Anele and Kanyi Mbao interview South African singer Judith Sebola and actress Kanyi Mbao about their experiences on The Masked Singer South Africa. The discussion covers the technical difficulties of performing in costume, the challenges of maintaining anonymity, and how the show serves as a space for artistic healing and rediscovery.
The guests reflect on the emotional vulnerability of unmasking and the physical demands of the competition. The episode concludes with a tribute to the performers' dedication despite their intense international filming schedules.
29 Sep 2026
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Sune does not want to attend her friend's wedding because she was not chosen as a bridesmaid, is she wrong?
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The hosts of Anele and the Club on 947 discuss a listener's dilemma regarding wedding party roles. A voice note from a listener named Sone reveals her frustration after being excluded from a friend's bridal party despite having served as a bridesmaid for that same friend three years prior. The conversation explores themes of friendship evolution, social expectations, and the emotional impact of perceived downgrades in relationship status.
The episode features various perspectives, including a caller who shared a similar experience of being a maid of honor but not being included in a subsequent wedding party due to changing life stages. A contributor from Germany also shares a story about selecting a best man based on support for his marriage rather than purely historical friendship. The discussion concludes with reflections on how friendships naturally shift and the importance of prioritizing stability and support over tradition.
29 Sep 2026
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How do we prevent Petrol attendants from getting scammed by drivers?
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The hosts discuss a distressing trend of motorists driving away from petrol stations without paying for fuel, leaving low-paid petrol attendants liable for the unpaid bills. The conversation centers on a specific incident in Waterfall where a driver fled with a thousand rand worth of fuel, highlighting the vulnerability of service workers who are often held financially responsible for such theft.
The episode explores various potential solutions to prevent this behavior, including pre-authorization systems similar to hotel check-ins, prepaid digital wallets, and the controversial idea of attendants holding vehicle keys. The discussion also touches on the broader issue of criminal use of false license plates in South Africa and the difficulty of implementing security measures without creating new safety or convenience risks for customers.
29 Sep 2026
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Masked Singer Season 3: Bontle Modiselle crowned the winner as Spotty the dog
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The hosts welcome Bunte (Sporty) and Robot Boy (Mosquito), the finalists of The Masked Singer Season 3, to discuss their experiences behind the mask. The conversation explores the challenges of maintaining secrecy from family and neighbors, the sensory deprivation of competing in costume, and the unexpected synergy shared during their performances.
The interview also touches on Robot Boy's connection to his father, Mzog Ambuli, and how his professional successes serve as a tribute to his legacy. The episode concludes with reflections on the season's success and potential future collaborative projects.