Love Bombed

Love Bombed

BBC Local Radio

34 - 6. Whose problem is Ray McDonald?

Vicky Pattison investigates romance fraud, exploring extreme cases of love bombing, lies and psychological manipulation. Victims share their stories and experts discuss how we, as a society, can affect change.

Series 4. WifeHunter Uncovering one the UK’s most prolific Lovebombers, Raymond McDonald. Despite a court ban he is still on dating apps and talking to women. One of them is us.

Previously on Love Bombed:

Series 3. Love Bombed Presents...Betrayed Vicky Pattison explores double lives, mental trickery, manipulation and love.

Series 2. Who is Alex? A story of survival after a woman nearly lost her money and sense of self to an online fraudster.

Series 1. Who is James Scott? The incredible double life of a serial cheater and his true identity.

Have you been love bombed? Tell us your story at lovebombed@bbc.co.uk.

Credits: Series 4. WifeHunter

Presented by Vicky Pattison. Writer and Producer: Jane Downs and Barney Rowntree. Investigative reporter: Philippa Goymer. Story Consultant: Barney Rowntree. Sound designer: Kasel Kundola. Online Producer: Rachael Smith. Executive Producer: Dan Farthing (BBC Investigations NE & Cumbria). Commissioning Editor: Alistair Miskin.

Lovebombed was made at BBC Radio Newcastle for BBC Sounds.

Visit bbc.co.uk/actionline for help and support on issues raised in this series.

34 - 6. Whose problem is Ray McDonald?
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Vicky Pattison investigates romance fraud, exploring extreme cases of love bombing, lies and psychological manipulation. Victims share their stories and experts discuss how we, as a society, can affect change.

Series 4. WifeHunter Uncovering one the UK’s most prolific Lovebombers, Raymond McDonald. Despite a court ban he is still on dating apps and talking to women. One of them is us.

Previously on Love Bombed:

Series 3. Love Bombed Presents...Betrayed Vicky Pattison explores double lives, mental trickery, manipulation and love.

Series 2. Who is Alex? A story of survival after a woman nearly lost her money and sense of self to an online fraudster.

Series 1. Who is James Scott? The incredible double life of a serial cheater and his true identity.

Have you been love bombed? Tell us your story at lovebombed@bbc.co.uk.

Credits: Series 4. WifeHunter

Presented by Vicky Pattison. Writer and Producer: Jane Downs and Barney Rowntree. Investigative reporter: Philippa Goymer. Story Consultant: Barney Rowntree. Sound designer: Kasel Kundola. Online Producer: Rachael Smith. Executive Producer: Dan Farthing (BBC Investigations NE & Cumbria). Commissioning Editor: Alistair Miskin.

Lovebombed was made at BBC Radio Newcastle for BBC Sounds.

Visit bbc.co.uk/actionline for help and support on issues raised in this series.

Episodes

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6. Whose problem is Ray McDonald?

Fri, 20 Mar 2026
33-

5. Waiting for answers

Fri, 13 Mar 2026
32-

4. A date with Ray

Fri, 06 Mar 2026
31-

3. The making of a conman

Fri, 27 Feb 2026
30-

2. Morning ‘til night

Fri, 20 Feb 2026